What is the meaning of life? Is it happiness? Is it having fame? Is it having wealth? Life as we all know it does not always go as planned. There are many twists and turns, ups and downs, tears of joy and tears of sadness.
I really thought of the meaning of my life today after my round of golf. One of my passions is golf because I love to play. I “think” it is a dream of mine to play golf for a living and make money from it. I believe I can, but just like many of us have doubts throughout life I have mine as well. One day I play pretty well for my standards, the next it could be 5-10 strokes worse. Golf is a game of inches, a game of misses, a game that’s played between the ears.
I have always set my standards high in golf because I believe I can accomplish them. I am very hard on myself, which can be both good and bad. One thing that really bothers me with not just golf, but life as well is that there is a common theme between them for me. That common theme is satisfaction.
I am never satisfied mentally. Nothing that I do ever seems good enough for myself. Let’s take a look at golf. I play pretty well, not as well as I like but better than most. I shot one-under par 71 for the first time in my life about a month ago and though I was excited, part of me was still not satisfied with the results. Today I played and shot 86 and was not satisfied at all even though my ballstriking was spot on. There are times when I let golf dictate the meaning of my life. What I mean is that if I play bad then I have a bad life. For me mentally if I never become what I want in golf then I am a complete utter failure. And not only a failure to myself, but a failure to my girlfriend as well. Why I feel this way makes no sense to me, I guess I am just wired that way.
In life it is the same way. It is hard for me to be satisfied with my life sometimes. I feel I am not where I should be, whether that is my own fault or just the cards I was dealt in life, it is difficult to be pleased.
As bad as it sounds if I do not accomplish what I feel I should in golf and life I do not want to be on earth. I think my problem is that I do not want mediocrity, I do not want average, I do not want the societal norm of just paying bills and dying. I read so many motivational quotes and motivational readings that talk about working hard, not quitting, and having faith are ways to have success. The thing that bugs me is you can work hard, not quit, and have faith in life and in your passion and still be like me: unsatisfied.
I think my question to God or whatever higher power is out there is how does Anthony Thrush learn to become satisfied? What steps do I need to take to get to satisfaction? I assume in due time I will learn that, but time is all we have in life…and you never know when your time runs out.